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An Epiphany About Bravery

The times we live in provide ample opportunities for us to be afraid. The Rt. Rev. Mariann Budde, Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Washington, DC, writes about how ordinary people develop the capacity to act with conviction even when afraid. I invite you to read Bishop Budde's works:


In the 1950's, my family owned a wonderful piece of Colorado on U.S. Hwy 40 between Tabernash and Granby. I spent summers there where I could look in almost every direction and see towering Engleman Spruce trees, snowcapped peaks, clear running water, Aspens, and Lodgepole Pines.

One summer, Joe and Monroe, two friends from my Houston neighborhood visited me. Monroe was a little younger and we decided to play a game with him. The electric company had come through and cleared some trees that were growing beneath their lines. In the process, they left a pile of logs. Somehow, there was a hollowed out area in the pile. We asked Monroe if he was brave enough to go inside and see if there were any wild animals there. (We had already checked and knew there were not.)

Monroe, to our surprise, crawled inside and, when he came out, he assured us there were no wild things.

We felt a little embarrassed for the childish prank and decided we needed to recognize Monroe for his bravery. The electric company had also left some green glass insulators behind and we thought one of them would make a great award for Monroe. We quickly convened a little awards ceremony and presented Monroe with the prize for bravery.

Monroe cherished that prize. Even more, Monroe valued the spirit of bravery that earned it. He developed that spirit in the years ahead.

After high school, Monroe joined the fire department. He put that bravery to work extinguishing fires and saving lives. In time, he was diagnosed with a terminal respiratory illness, which was the result of inhaling toxic fumes while fighting fires. He fought that illness with the bravery he had grown since childhood. Monroe died an untimely death.

Monroe knew what was most important. He knew the importance of being surrounded by people who believed in him and supported him. And he practiced being brave, in small challenges as well as large ones. Those are interconnected capacities we all can learn.

An Epiphany About Bravery

I told my son that story when he was in elementary school to encourage him to be brave. One day he went to a garage sale down the street and came home with three green glass insulators. His mom helped him put them in a box with wrapping paper. He presented them to me and told me they were a prize for my bravery.

I didn't feel all that brave but in my little boy's eyes I had seemed brave. I still have those three insulators and when I see them they remind me to be brave. Like Monroe!

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The Very Reverend Ron Pogue


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